Tuesday, May 27, 2014
M A R R I A G E when mom and dad clock out for the day
Each day is spent giving pieces of myself away. I give a piece of myself to my children, a hunk to my job, a slice to daily duties, more sections away to family and friends, a piece I give away to myself through running, and at the end of the days what's left often goes into checking social media sites under the umbrella of "unwinding" at the end of the day. Come 9 PM, and there isn't much of Laura left. I'm spent and there is nothing left to give.
Work. Commute. Pick Up. Dinner. Baths. Chasing. Cuddling. Reading. Pajama Wrangling. Bed. Back into bed. Back into bed. Back into bed. We both collapse on the couch--- click on the TV---and sink into our own worlds of our phones and mindless programming.
We're exhausted. We love each other---but we're exhausted. We communicate about our day and make sure to fill in important details---but connecting? Truly allowing each other into each others lives that aren't veneered---it doesn't happen as much as it should.
The other day we both plopped down in our usual spots post bedtime and sat there without talking for twenty minutes. I was on my phone liking all your beautiful photos on Instagram and pinning my next week's dinner menu. He was checking scores of every. single. sporting. event. possible. We both looked at each other and started laughing. It was ridiculous. We hadn't had a single moment of our Thursday that we had been alone. We were mom and dad---and now we were Scott and Laura and we had nothing to say.
Don't you love the first 10 minutes of date night?! Oh I surely do. Those moments where you've kissed the kids, practically ran to the car, rolled the windows down, and sped off----to 3-4 hours of JUST US. We grab hands and look at each other as if to say. Hi, Friend......its our time. It's just us......we can just be......and a deep exhale and inhale fills this momma up to the brim with contentment, happiness, and love for the one whom I married.
Reconnecting on nights that aren't date nights? Takes more work. A half an hour after kids have been snuggled in their beds has been scheduled to be our at home date night. No phones. No TV.
We have to save a slice of ourselves for each other. We have to make communication a priority. He's my favorite person on this planet. He's mine. One day we won't have preschoolers hanging from our limbs. They'll grow up----and don't we all want more than anything else to experience the feeling of date night---every night?
Wednesday, May 7, 2014
My First!!!!! Half Marathon Experience
I thought they were going to.
but hooray! They did not.
We arrived in downtown Indianapolis before the sun arose by my master plan. We were NOT going to be struck in traffic. We were NOT going to have trouble parking. We were GOING TO BE PREPARED. We would be there early and enjoy the atmosphere of the Nation's!! Largest!! Half!! Marathon!! It was going to be perfect. We left our house with plenty of time for unexpected issues----we got to the corral.......and due to my wonderful slash psychotic planning---WAITED. for. two. hours. before anything happened.
Due to my planning I had just enough time to worry about BMs, Energy Shot timings, shoe lacings, outfit adjustments, and race day jitters to royally annoy the snot out of everyone. It was great. Two hours they will not soon forget as I asked frequently asked if they loved the new RUNNING BELT *ahem fannny pack* that I purchased at the expo. They nicely told me it looked 80's and I assured them they were jealous----cause it was awesome. (it is awesome.) See...
After the longest two hours of everyone's life we headed to our corral. Due to the Jelly Belly sport beans I consumed I became very confident and decided that we should really try to corral hop. We didn't belong in the back of the pack----clearly. My running belt catapulted me into baller status for a runner and we successful hopped two letters in the alphabet. Stealthy and hopped up on sugared/ caffienated jelly beans I was ready to begin. Not to be dramatic (okay, a liiiiiitle dramatic), but this race signifies so much progress in my life. This race was the endcap to a lifestyle transformation. I was hearing slow motion motivational music in my head. Chills were covering my body. I was ready to do thiiiiissssssssss....... and with a quick pop of a gun...we were off.
I told myself I was going to pray for the first mile. It was a goal of mine to talk to God and praise Him for the changes and challenges I faced during my training and weight loss the past year. I wish I could say that I did complete that goal during the half marathon but sadly, I didn't . But I know God understands why I simply could not. For a quarter mile we were stuck behind a middle aged man with the shortest American flag shorts I've ever seen. It's really hard to pray when you're laughing and wanting to vomit at the same time. I doubt anyone could have a legit conversation with our Creator while trying to dodge ones eyes from seeing a mans bits out on display through splashes of red, white, and blue.
Thank goodness for God's grace and those jelly beans.
We sprinted around that fella and carried on.
The first 7 miles were fun. I laughed, chatted, and people watched with my runner girl Jess while keeping a steady pace. Can I tell you about my friend Jess? She was my rock during training. She was my cheerleader, butt-kicker, pace keeper, and off the ledge talker for 15 weeks. She ran with me so I wasn't alone. She wouldn't ever say this---but she SLOWED HER PACE for me while denying that she was faster than me. She listened to me mutter curse words and Get me through this Lord all in the same breath without judgement. She let me believe that my "running beans" really did help me maintain pace. She told me I could do this---when I didn't yet believe it myself. She let me drag her to a race two hours early and was still my friend afterwards. Yay Jessica. If you're going to run a half marathon----you should really find yourself a Jessica. I hope to be a Jessica to someone else one day.
Part of the Mini Marathon in Indianapolis is running around the Indianapolis Motor Speedway---I get it. Wow so cool to run where the racecars race...........As we were entering the Speedway I felt it too. OMGsh! The speedway!!! COOL! FUN! wait.....no water stations? just asphalt? you want me to kiss what? the bricks? During the speedway it got hard. Your mind gives up long before your legs do. My mind started to give up and it doesn't take much for me to go to crazytown. So naturally, I ate more jelly beans and tried to distract myself.
I read a running memoir called Running Like a Girl a few weeks back. The book is great and really interesting to read if you're trying to spark a love for running. One of the biggest takeaways that stuck out was that she suggest painting your fingernails a fun color before each race. Her reasoning was that at the end you're GOING to look like hell so you might as well have your nails in order. Annnnddddd.....there is nothing like a splash of color to distract your crazy brain. My nails were neon blue----and she's a genius. I held out my hands in front of me and looked at my ridiculous nails and started laughing. Because running with your arms straight out in front of you makes you look completely ridiculous. Mind. distracted.
There was a girl who was in front of me for most of the race who I convinced myself was a Runner's World Model runner.....She was tan with a runner's physique and her long fishtailed braid sticking out under her neon running hat taunted me for a few miles. "You're slower than me" the braid said. "I'm so much awesomer at running than you"....the braid said. I found myself wishing I could be more like this pretty runner girl. I wanted a braid....and then I realized Braids were taunting me---so I passed runner's world perfect runner girl---and it felt really good. Sorry pretty runner girl----you're probably really nice---but your braid is kind of a meanie--you should probably cut it off.
Runners come in all shapes and sizes and the Mini taught me that. There were people of all shapes and sizes running faster, slower, and more awkwardly than me. Running is something everyone can do---and while runner fishtail braid girl taunted me ---the remainder of the race I tried to focus on how beautiful runners are. They are strong and mentally confident. I am strong. I am mentally confident. There was camaraderie in that---and perhaps that what keeps people coming back for more.
Thirteen miles ---whew.
My longest run prior to race day was 10 miles---crossing the 10 mile mark during the half was do or die time. And turns out it was DIE time. My phone died. This was super sad for a few reasons.
1. running without music---tragic.
2. running without my pleasant running app talking to me with my pace and mileage ---super tragic.
3. running with JUST your thoughts and no Beyonce?? EPICALLY TRAGIC.
The first 7 miles were fun. The middle 3 miles were a little crazy. The last 3 miles were HOLY MOLY HARDDDDDDDDD AND PAINFUL. My feet hurt. My toes burned. My knees pounded. My hips ached. I wanted to give up. Why do people do this? All 30,000 people running through Indianapolis that day were hurting and aching----WHY? I think it's because we like to prove to ourselves and to others that WE CAN DO HARD THINGS.
and we did. and I did.
During the last mile I saw a familiar face along the street. An acquaintance that I met through my handmade business, Lillypie. Seeing her and having her recognize me and shout "Keep going Laura!! You're almost there!!!" was just the boost of confidence I needed to pull strength out of my fanny pack and push through.
I finished the race.
I cried.
a wave of emotions flooded my mind and heart.
My biggest nugget learned from my first half marathon? People don't run races because they are easy. People run races because it feels flippin amazing to finish something you set out to do.
Will I do another one?
YUP.
I have more jelly beans to eat. and I definitely need to wear my 80s running belt again. It's super cute.
Wednesday, April 30, 2014
S T I T C H F I X // april
Monday was a bit gloomy around our house. Kids were cranky. Mom was cranky. We were running low on food and it was lunch time. Noah and Lilly fought over the same dang green train all morning and I was ready to light the thing on fire. No one in our family was the best version of themselves. and then the doorbell wrang.
FED EX SHOWED UP
with my April Stitch fix. RAISE THE EVER LOVING ROOF.
a bright spot in a gloomy Monday friends!
This fix didn't knock it out of the park for me. I was expecting puppies, rainbows, and fireworks like the MARCH fix. This might happen and I understand that. Someone who doesn't know me personally is picking out items for me---it will happen. I had to ask myself some questions..
Stitch fix still has my shopping heart. I'm already looking forward to next month. I requested some fun vacation attire for my excursion to the beach. I can't wait to see what they pick!
Check out my three month review HERE!
Would you like to give Stitch Fix a try? Use my referral link below if you want. I'll be honest, if you sign up through me I get $25 to spend on my next fix. and that's awesome. the end. :)
FED EX SHOWED UP
with my April Stitch fix. RAISE THE EVER LOVING ROOF.
a bright spot in a gloomy Monday friends!
Tops this month were two tab sleeved blouses and a striped tank.
- While I think the tab sleeved blouses are adorable I already own one from my last fix. I do think the polka dot one is quite precious.
- White blouse is cute---but not workable into my current wardrobe. That means it will probably hang a lot and that means I should not keep it
- The tank is versatile, cute, unlike anything I already own, and different --I also have a love affair with stripes. It hung oddly on me though. And that made me super sad---I was going to keep it--but decided that I didn't need another adorable tank that fit weird. I would WANT to wear it but know that it would probably end up in a frustrated pile during a rushed morning because it just felt weird on me.
- Shorts were adorable.
- Jeans were boot cut. I KNOW that it's making a comeback. However I cannot get back on the boot leg jean wagon. Too many bad memories of wet pant legs, fraying hems, and hiding of my shoes. #toomanyjncosinmiddleschool To be honest slipping on a flared jean makes to slingshot back to 1997---thanks but no thanks #longlivetheskinnies
This month I kept one item, the shorts.
This fix didn't knock it out of the park for me. I was expecting puppies, rainbows, and fireworks like the MARCH fix. This might happen and I understand that. Someone who doesn't know me personally is picking out items for me---it will happen. I had to ask myself some questions..
- did I have fun? yeppppppp
- was this easier than dragging preschoolers to the mall? yeeeppppppppp
- did I find something i loved? yeppppppppp
- did I spend crazy amounts of money? nooppppppeeeeee $33 for the shorts.
Stitch fix still has my shopping heart. I'm already looking forward to next month. I requested some fun vacation attire for my excursion to the beach. I can't wait to see what they pick!
Check out my three month review HERE!
Would you like to give Stitch Fix a try? Use my referral link below if you want. I'll be honest, if you sign up through me I get $25 to spend on my next fix. and that's awesome. the end. :)
Thursday, April 24, 2014
Inspired by real women // now is your time
Keeping myself inspired is the name of the game in weight loss. I'm sure of it.
You're either inspired by chips, ice cream, bread, and mounds of chocolate several times a day....
or you're inspired by other's weight loss journey, healthy food choices, and activities.
Only one set of inspirations will aid in your weight loss. My college education tells me that being inspired by other strong women is the one that will finally allow you to kick the flub to the curb.
When I reflect on my own struggle and journey I can see how I was inspired by the wrong set for a long time. I turned to food as comfort. I chose to celebrate with "treats" that turned into binges. I selected to wish away the pounds rather than to do the hard work. It got me no where---well exept overweight and unhappy.
So choosing to find inspiration in another form was really the only way I was going to be able to lose weight and KEEP IT OFF. The first place I turned for inspiration was to my relationship with God. Ashamedly I had never made that connection that my relationship with God could fuel the inpiration to get healthy. Once I successfully aligned myself to the mindset of being devoted and committing my weight loss to Him the other parts of losing weight fell into place. And before you think it---IT HAS NEVER BEEN EASY. However knowing that the reason for getting healthy was for God to better use me rather than to just look good did make the task ahead of me more manageable. If you're looking for help to allign your spiritual and physical transformation I highly reccoment GODFIT. It's a 6 week devotional complete with workout and fitness routines that WILL help you begin your journey.
Staying inspired is something I constantly need to do. I must look around me to other mothers, different types of food, and varying ways to challenge myself physically in order to LOSE the initial weight and maintain this lifestyle that I've come to love.
I decided that it might be beneficial to others reading to see where I pull inspiration from . Perhaps this can help you KICK YOUR OWN REAR IN GEAR. Have you been waiting for a better time? NOW IS THE TIME. Some of you stumbled onto this blog JUST TO READ THAT. Your time is now sister.
Here are some inpiring blogs that I recommend. None of these ladies know I'm about to name drop---there is nothing in this for me. These are the gals that I began following back in June. Some of them I have internet relationships with-- others I don't. Their own journeys inspire me and I enjoy following their story oh-so-much
These ladies are mothers. These ladies aren't professionals....and they inspire me. Let their journey inspire yours.
I also have a secret board (love those!) on pinterest that I use to pin images that inspire me to keep going. At least twice a week I scroll through and remind myself WHY.
You can also stay inspired on your weight loss journey by finding fun and exciting ways to enjoy eating. When you're losing weight you're saying NO to a lot of things that you used to indulge in. It can be a huge bummer ---oh who am I kidding it's a MAJOR WAHHHHH BUMMER to say no. So in order to stay inspired in the kitchen and not allow yourself to quit because the FUN of eating is gone---find new ways to have fun!
Here are some of my favorite food inspirations that I make frequently. Delicious and not a diet derailer! WIN.
Hearing others tell me that they are inspired by my adventures in getting healthy makes me happy. I write about all this as a way to keep myself accountable and to help others. The ladies above inspired me one day to a pointt where I thought to myself---DUDE IF THEY CAN DO THAT----SO CAN I! It's attainable girls. Don't quit this time---you're worth it.
xoxox ladies. have a great butt kicking weekend.
Laura Beth
You're either inspired by chips, ice cream, bread, and mounds of chocolate several times a day....
or you're inspired by other's weight loss journey, healthy food choices, and activities.
Only one set of inspirations will aid in your weight loss. My college education tells me that being inspired by other strong women is the one that will finally allow you to kick the flub to the curb.
When I reflect on my own struggle and journey I can see how I was inspired by the wrong set for a long time. I turned to food as comfort. I chose to celebrate with "treats" that turned into binges. I selected to wish away the pounds rather than to do the hard work. It got me no where---well exept overweight and unhappy.
So choosing to find inspiration in another form was really the only way I was going to be able to lose weight and KEEP IT OFF. The first place I turned for inspiration was to my relationship with God. Ashamedly I had never made that connection that my relationship with God could fuel the inpiration to get healthy. Once I successfully aligned myself to the mindset of being devoted and committing my weight loss to Him the other parts of losing weight fell into place. And before you think it---IT HAS NEVER BEEN EASY. However knowing that the reason for getting healthy was for God to better use me rather than to just look good did make the task ahead of me more manageable. If you're looking for help to allign your spiritual and physical transformation I highly reccoment GODFIT. It's a 6 week devotional complete with workout and fitness routines that WILL help you begin your journey.
Staying inspired is something I constantly need to do. I must look around me to other mothers, different types of food, and varying ways to challenge myself physically in order to LOSE the initial weight and maintain this lifestyle that I've come to love.
I decided that it might be beneficial to others reading to see where I pull inspiration from . Perhaps this can help you KICK YOUR OWN REAR IN GEAR. Have you been waiting for a better time? NOW IS THE TIME. Some of you stumbled onto this blog JUST TO READ THAT. Your time is now sister.
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Here are some inpiring blogs that I recommend. None of these ladies know I'm about to name drop---there is nothing in this for me. These are the gals that I began following back in June. Some of them I have internet relationships with-- others I don't. Their own journeys inspire me and I enjoy following their story oh-so-much
ASHLEY // FreckleberryFit
Meg // Skinny Meg
MARY GRAHAM //Trusty Chucks
These ladies are mothers. These ladies aren't professionals....and they inspire me. Let their journey inspire yours.
I also have a secret board (love those!) on pinterest that I use to pin images that inspire me to keep going. At least twice a week I scroll through and remind myself WHY.
You can also stay inspired on your weight loss journey by finding fun and exciting ways to enjoy eating. When you're losing weight you're saying NO to a lot of things that you used to indulge in. It can be a huge bummer ---oh who am I kidding it's a MAJOR WAHHHHH BUMMER to say no. So in order to stay inspired in the kitchen and not allow yourself to quit because the FUN of eating is gone---find new ways to have fun!
Here are some of my favorite food inspirations that I make frequently. Delicious and not a diet derailer! WIN.
and I love EVERYTHING from SkinnyTaste.com
xoxox ladies. have a great butt kicking weekend.
Laura Beth
Thursday, April 10, 2014
You Can't Fake Running
You can't fake running----so I'm not sure why I've thought of myself as a fake runner for the last 5 months. Running is the least fake thing you can do. You can't pretend to love it if you don't. You can't walk and pretend it's running. You can't fake a faster time. You can't fake a sweat. You can't fake the pain. You can't fake the release of tension. You can't hide behind anything when you run.
The multiple plates I spin on a daily basis stop spinning when I run. When I leave my house laced up with headphones in I escape from the busyness of my life. The toddlers can't demand anything from me. The housework doesn't scream. The emails don't get read. I don't have to have the answers. I escape from the crazy.
The first few steps of my run always ache a little. My knees remember the miles from the other day and my lungs fill the familiar burn of quickened breath. The beginning strides of my run are always freeing---I am literally running away from my day. I don't need to tell you how much I adore my family because I know you understand those moments where you need escape from your blessings for a few moments.
Once I flee from my day the routine sets in and I find my rhythm of my strides. I work through the pain of the first mile and fight off the insecurities that always creep in. The self doubts I have about myself in all aspects of my life line up before me and that first mile is always spent knocking down and assassinating each one. You're a mess of a mother and it's harder for you than it is for others. You are weak. You will fail. You are failing. Each aching stride crumbles those insecurities under my feet.
I love that feeling.
The feeling of conquering an insecurity and running all over it and proving it WRONG is what keeps me lacing up my shoes. Every time I run I'm reminded that I'm doing something that I COULD NOT do a short time ago. Every time I run I remind myself that I'm stronger than I thought I was. Every time I run I'm encouraged that my fears don't own me.
In a world where it's easy to fake a lot of things---I love being reminded that you can't fake running.
The multiple plates I spin on a daily basis stop spinning when I run. When I leave my house laced up with headphones in I escape from the busyness of my life. The toddlers can't demand anything from me. The housework doesn't scream. The emails don't get read. I don't have to have the answers. I escape from the crazy.
The first few steps of my run always ache a little. My knees remember the miles from the other day and my lungs fill the familiar burn of quickened breath. The beginning strides of my run are always freeing---I am literally running away from my day. I don't need to tell you how much I adore my family because I know you understand those moments where you need escape from your blessings for a few moments.
Once I flee from my day the routine sets in and I find my rhythm of my strides. I work through the pain of the first mile and fight off the insecurities that always creep in. The self doubts I have about myself in all aspects of my life line up before me and that first mile is always spent knocking down and assassinating each one. You're a mess of a mother and it's harder for you than it is for others. You are weak. You will fail. You are failing. Each aching stride crumbles those insecurities under my feet.
I love that feeling.
The feeling of conquering an insecurity and running all over it and proving it WRONG is what keeps me lacing up my shoes. Every time I run I'm reminded that I'm doing something that I COULD NOT do a short time ago. Every time I run I remind myself that I'm stronger than I thought I was. Every time I run I'm encouraged that my fears don't own me.
In a world where it's easy to fake a lot of things---I love being reminded that you can't fake running.
Thursday, March 27, 2014
S T I T C H F I X a three month review
I have had little brown boxes with turquoise tape delivered to my doorstep for three months now. I received gift cards to Stitch Fix for Christmas and was thrilled to give this styling service a try. I've waited to do any sort of review on Stitch Fix because I felt like I needed to get some fixes under my belt before I could best form an opinion.
Stitch Fix has no idea who I am---well maybe Shelby does, she styled my last fix. They didn't contact me to do a review and I am getting nothing from doing this. It is really just my honest opinion on this monthly subscription box. I really just want to have a conversation with you about it like I would a good friend. :)
Over the past five years my body has gone through a lot of changes. There hasn't been a single year where I haven't been in the process of gaining, being pregnant, birthing a baby, recovering, losing weight, pregnant again, birthing, recovering, losing....... what a beating my body has taken.
My pre-children style?? Well?? It was awkward in my opinion. I was straddling the fine line of still shopping at American Eagle and Junior's section at Kohls to feeling like I reallllllly was too old and should be shopping Eddie Bauer or the misses section of JC PENNY...... Did you go through that phase? Not feeling like an adult yet because YOUNG! AND I SLEEP A LOT! AND MY TIME IS MY OWN! but also feeling like I should be more conservative and responsible because STUDENT DEBT! BILLS! MORTGAGE PAYMENTS! and OMG where is my dad so he can fix my dishwasher!??!
After creating, making, and birthing my lovely babies----my body is just. DIFFERENT. It's not bad---and I mean that. It's just---different. Trying to wear clothes that I had saved in the back of the closet for my "someday these will fit again" left me disappointed. They still just don't look right---and my style has changed. Just the thought of LOW RISE pants makes me want to scream like I've seen a hairy spider. SICK!! GET AWAY FROM ME! NO. PUKEFACE.
What I'm getting at is that Stitch Fix has been a way from me to really narrow down my style. How? Well to start you fill out an amazingly detailed style profile before you even begin. You begin to feel like you're filling out a personality profile after a while---and I guess you kinda are. Do you know your style? Do you have one? Those of you thinking at this moment:
" I don't have a style, I'm terrible at this, I just buy what's on sale...."
Girl, listen to me when I say in my most loving tone ---
shut up hooker, you have a style---you just need help defining it.
Stitch Fix helps you do that---over time. Go fill out the profile even if you don't schedule a fix. It will help you greatly when trying to decide what you do like. Pinky promise.
So I scheduled my fix to be delivered monthly ( you can choose when and how often you want one) and waited. So hard to wait. I wanted it immediately and apparently so did everyone else. :) I was super happy with my first fix. I love stripes and they delivered. I kept both striped shirts and wear them frequently. What I love about this service besides the obvious of clothes showing up at your doorstep is the ability to learn things about your own style that you might not have known. The other two shirts they sent were great---but after trying them on with the clothes already in my possession I realized that I don't really like navy on me.
After trying on your clothes you have three days to ship back the unwanted items in a prepaid shipping bag. Then you head to your computer and fill out detailed feedback. DETAILED is the key to making sure your next fix is even better.
I told my stylist I'd love to see some dresses that could transition to Spring in my next fix.
30 days later my next fix came!
When working with Stitch Fix they listen to your feedback. My next fix had two tops in bright colors, a pair of black skinnies, and two patterened floral dresses
color--they listened
loose fitting tops---listened
dresses--listened
So what did I learn about my personal style in this fix? I was reaffirmed that I love dresses---but I realized I don't love chiffon dresses. Looking in my wardrobe I don't have any in that material and never really realized that I gravitate away from it. I have no idea why---but I had a definite NO WAY opinion when I tried to two dresses on. It took me a while to realize why.
I decided to keep the pink sleeveless blouse.
I was so grateful for this fix because I really didn't know that I didn't like chiffon until this fix. Typing this sentence it seems so silly, I know. "I didn't know I didn't like chifffooonnnnnnn "whiny weirdo! But really, I am grateful because now when I do shop in stores I know not to even look at a dress if it is chiffon. If I buy one--I likely won't wear it and I will have wasted my money. I think that's pretty great.
If you get a fix that isn't superb----you'll learn more about refining your style. What worked? What didn't.....and most importantly WHY.
Do you feel like a service like this could help you with your day to day look?
Could a service like this help you define your style and perhaps help your self-esteem?
I'm all about that.
So my third fix came. Two months of detailed feedback preceded this fix. I felt that if I really wanted my fixes to be spot on and really me I needed to really be specific --and I was. To me this was the make or break it moment for me. Would I continue? Or would I stop? This fix needed to show me that the stylists were listening and truly interested in finding something for ME that I would love.
Boom. They nailed it. High five Shelby. Fist bumps all around.
The color palette is spot on. The fabric choices are my preference.
The cut of the tops are my favorite.
There are items I would not have picked out on my own---that really make me feel great.
Do you struggle getting multiple uses out of your higher priced items? I love that they send you idea cards with the items. Take the cards and try to recreate the looks with what you already own if you like it! I've done that many times.
statement necklace-----seriously shrieked when I took this outta the box.
Scalloped Dress---SOLD. Perfect transition dress that will be very versatile.
And it's a rayon poly blend----MUCH better given my chiffon aversion. :)
Watercolor print blouse
Great color, out of my comfort zone, like the watercolor element, i think it's flattering.
jury still out.
Jeans are a great fit---but pricey
sending back
Black drapey cardigan
Cute--but could buy at target at 1/3 the cost.
Are the items more expensive than your go tos of Target, Old Navy, and Loft----YUP. I can't sugar coat that for you. And that kinda stinks. But let me tell you why it doesn't bother me.
1. Because I have NEVER had trouble spending dollars.
2. Because I will not keep a stitch fix item that I would consider a basic. The basics---will need to be replaced often and thus should be purchased for a cheaper price. ABSOLUTELY. However, your exciting pieces--the ones you are thrilled to wear that look great, feel great, and make you feel more confident? I don't mind spending more. And by more I mean 40 for a shirt.....
I have "cheaper the better" selected on all my items in my settings. While I would definitely not consider 40 for a shirt CHEAP----I understand that they aren't a bargain chain store like our go tos. They shouldn't be competitive in prices because the items selected are unique and uncommon in the main marketplace.
I deserve a few key pieces in my wardrobe that excite me AND SO DO YOU. I know the kids need new clothes, the dishwasher needs repaired, and you have bills to pay so beauty and personal style for you must come last. I get that girlfriend I do. I also think that when you're happy with how you look it spills over to other avenues of your life. We are women---and wired that way.
Could you use some help learning how to style and select clothes that work with your body type and preferences?
Do you find spending time on yourself difficult because of multiple plates spinning with your family, children, career, and hobbies?
Are you looking for something fun to treat yourself?
Do you really want to amp up your style and try new things?
I think you might enjoy Stitch Fix. If you decide to try it---give it time. Don't write off an "off" fix and give up. You can see through my experience that FEEDBACK is key and being as detailed as possible pays off. Really reflect on your daily life and what you want your clothes to do for you.
Girls, its so fun. I don't think you'll be disappointed! If you are ready to try it, I'd love it if you went through my referral link it's the Stitch Fix photo below. Why? Well for every person who schedules a fix through your code you get a $25 credit----free clothes ladies, free clothes. Can you blame me?
Saturday, March 1, 2014
GODFIT Website Launch and a GIVEAWAY
"Let God help you Laura.----You can do this, I know you can" --John Hayden creator of the God Fit Manual
Have you ever thought about taking care of your body as an act of worship?
You're sick of hating your body. You're so tired of crinkling up your nose when you see what's under your clothes. You're tired of tugging loose fitting clothes to hide folds of skin. You feel sluggish. You feel tired. You joke about not caring about your body---but you do. You eat whatever you want because it makes you feel better for a time. You don't know how much you weigh---and you don't really want to know. You fake happiness at times. You know you could be better. You THINK you could be better. You are overwhelmed and not really sure where to start. When do you start? How do you start? What if you fail? Again? Does this sound familiar---have you been there?
Ladies, I know your struggle. I'm with you.
Are you ready to change things?
Losing weight is as much of a mental game as it is physical. When I look back on previous attempts to lose weight ( and trust, there were many) it was the mental part of losing weight that prevented my success. Those ugly thoughts that seep in---you can't do this, it's too hard, its not worth the effort, you're a bad mom...... Yea, those----that's the mental game.
WHAT IF there was a way to align your mental and physical game? Can you jump start your weight loss and commit to a lifestyle change rooted in devotion to the one who loves us the most, the one who knit us together in our mother's womb (Psalm 139:13), the one who will never leave us (Hebrews 13:5) ?? This is the truth that comes from His word.
GODFIT training and devotional manual was that for me. I've talked about it here before ( you can read that post here) and two months after meeting my goal (!!!) I'm still using it as a tool for workouts, ideas, and realignment of my mental game. Why do I ultimately want a healthier body?
Today is the launch of the GODFIT website www.godfit.com ! If you're looking for a program that combines faith and fitness I highly recommend this. Through this website you'll find information about the program, a password protected video archive of workouts, and the YOUseries manual ( the version that I used). If you're a church looking to bring a program like this to your congregation--GODFIT always has a GROUPseries option.
When you find a product that you love and believe in---you talk about it with your friends. You want to share it! I want to share GODFIT with you. I contacted John, the creator of GODFIT and he's agreed to GIVE AWAY a YOUseries manual, access to all the videos, and tshirt to one of my readers!
Wahooo, right!?
Here is how to enter:
1. Like the GODFIT facebook page and tell him that Laura Beth sent you. Say hello, he's a nice guy!
2. Leave a comment here on this post telling me that you did.
Don't forget to check out the GODFIT website! I'm pretty stoked that my testimonial made it to the website. hashtag call good morning america!!
The giveaway will close Tuesday, March 4th at 10 EST and results will be posted here and on my FB page.
Have you ever thought about taking care of your body as an act of worship?
You're sick of hating your body. You're so tired of crinkling up your nose when you see what's under your clothes. You're tired of tugging loose fitting clothes to hide folds of skin. You feel sluggish. You feel tired. You joke about not caring about your body---but you do. You eat whatever you want because it makes you feel better for a time. You don't know how much you weigh---and you don't really want to know. You fake happiness at times. You know you could be better. You THINK you could be better. You are overwhelmed and not really sure where to start. When do you start? How do you start? What if you fail? Again? Does this sound familiar---have you been there?
Ladies, I know your struggle. I'm with you.
Are you ready to change things?
Losing weight is as much of a mental game as it is physical. When I look back on previous attempts to lose weight ( and trust, there were many) it was the mental part of losing weight that prevented my success. Those ugly thoughts that seep in---you can't do this, it's too hard, its not worth the effort, you're a bad mom...... Yea, those----that's the mental game.
WHAT IF there was a way to align your mental and physical game? Can you jump start your weight loss and commit to a lifestyle change rooted in devotion to the one who loves us the most, the one who knit us together in our mother's womb (Psalm 139:13), the one who will never leave us (Hebrews 13:5) ?? This is the truth that comes from His word.
GODFIT training and devotional manual was that for me. I've talked about it here before ( you can read that post here) and two months after meeting my goal (!!!) I'm still using it as a tool for workouts, ideas, and realignment of my mental game. Why do I ultimately want a healthier body?
Today is the launch of the GODFIT website www.godfit.com ! If you're looking for a program that combines faith and fitness I highly recommend this. Through this website you'll find information about the program, a password protected video archive of workouts, and the YOUseries manual ( the version that I used). If you're a church looking to bring a program like this to your congregation--GODFIT always has a GROUPseries option.
When you find a product that you love and believe in---you talk about it with your friends. You want to share it! I want to share GODFIT with you. I contacted John, the creator of GODFIT and he's agreed to GIVE AWAY a YOUseries manual, access to all the videos, and tshirt to one of my readers!
Wahooo, right!?
Here is how to enter:
1. Like the GODFIT facebook page and tell him that Laura Beth sent you. Say hello, he's a nice guy!
2. Leave a comment here on this post telling me that you did.
Don't forget to check out the GODFIT website! I'm pretty stoked that my testimonial made it to the website. hashtag call good morning america!!
The giveaway will close Tuesday, March 4th at 10 EST and results will be posted here and on my FB page.
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